Alice in her Wonderland

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Can you really plan love?

Can you really plan love? Can you truly make love happen on your schedule, with the person you dreamed of falling in love with and the situation? I sometimes wonder how many people let true love slip aways just because it's not with the person they thought it would be or it just wasn't good timing. I do understand that love is a sensetive matter that you really need to analyse and take our time with. But how many of us really take our time to fall in love? How many of us just force love to happen and watch it crumble right before our eyes. I feel like I am not alone on this one....

It's a new year for the people of Wonderland. So many things are changing in everyones life. Alice recently purchased her very first house by herself which is an amazing accomplishment and something she would of never thought would happen a year ago. New responsabilities and yes, new commitments. Alice always thought owning a house would be her biggest step in becoming an adult. How many 25 year old women do you know that own their own home? I am guessing not many. Alice wasn't afraid to jump into owning this piece of real estate because she feels confident that this is where she want's to be and knows that becoming a homeowner is the direction she wants to proceed at. But for Alice, owning her own home in the city of Wonderland is not her only concern. Yes lady's and gentlemen, Alice has found a (kids cover your ears) fuck buddy. For the entegrity of this blog we will give him a names, lets call him "Jay".

Jay is the son of Alices new next door neighbor in Wonderland. He is the same age of Alice but with less going for him. Lets face it, he still lives with his mom! Alice dosen't mind though because she knows that he is nothing other than a ("you know") and that that's all he will ever be. After long work days, Alice has too little time to socialise with her friends. for the last 6 months she has felt that it was very easy to call Jay over to keep her company. But the more she spent with him, the more confused she was with her feelings. She loved having a promiscous life and enjoyed being single. Alice finds that commitment is just another way to keep a women from growing and expirementing. She has her life so planned out to a "T" that she knows that "love" is no where near her future. Alice is so commited in getting her life together by working in her career. She feels the busier she gets, the more she will stay out of trouble. But she forgot the number one lesson, when you try to run from trouble, just look around the corner because here it comes.

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